The FFB needs to have hoards of children because he's empty and they are empty. To fill up on junk food you need refills. With healthy food, small portions will do. What the BT accomplishes just by giving up his life and staying with this nut job frum society is equal to 100 kids. Of course, it's better if the BT has more, but he doesn't have to mimic the FFB. It's more important that the BT marry someone he or she likes because without that your whole frum life is in jeopardy. With BT marriages, you are much more dependent on your spouse since you don't have family to carry the load, and because you have to make many more intelligent decisions to survive. I'm not saying wait for perfection. I'm saying be comfy with who you marry. At the same time know that you have just gone from 50 million options to about 5, so don't be too picky, but marry someone you like even if he/she is older or health conditions limit fertility or the ability to have many kids.
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