Thursday, August 11, 2022

If it's good for the goose

Some people reading this blog are already going to call me an apikoris, so what the heck, I'll continue on with it. What is up with this?

He was completely subservient to the Gedolei Hador and his great Rabbeim, following their instructions with the greatest loyalty. 

https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/general/2112502/baruch-dayan-haemes-r-yaakov-rajchenbach-zl-pillar-of-chicago-jewish-community.html

I understand that they are talking about his role in public affairs, but still it's kind of odd. Completely subservient? Wouldn't we do that only before God?

Obviously, I'm not commenting on the man, but rather the portrayal of him. 

Again and again we see, everything they accuse Chabad of doing, they do themselves.  

So let's say it's a good thing to be completely subservient to the Gedolei Hador, then it's OK for Chassidim as well, including Chabad. 

As the expression goes, if it's good for the goose, it's good for the gander. 

Tuesday, August 9, 2022

I'll give you a better answer

For two years, I walked around town and asked rabbis, if Torah is everything, why do we daven so much?

Here's the silliest response: your question isn't why we daven so much, it's why you don't learn more Torah. You should learn 4 hours a day.

You'll note, he mocked my question, saying it wasn't a question, which is serious mockery, and then he made assumptions about how much I learn - negative of course - and then he made a requirement that for a New York baal habayis is ridiculous. He never said anything nice about davening, just more praise for Torah. I would grade the response as an F.

Here's another response: most of davening is Torah. Once again, turning everything into Torah. What's good about davening, is that it's Torah. I'll note, this response was given pleasantly. His manner wasn't the disappointing part. The disappointing part was the this man was supposed to be a massive talmid chocham, truly famous for this knowledge. In fact, he had been introduced to the audience with the instructions, you can ask him anything. This was a Charedi yeshivish type. A son-in-law of a very famous gadol. He has now passed on.

A third guy was dismissive. I approached him at a bris and they were about to start the brochos, and he had about 3 seconds for me. He said something about, it's all one, meaning Torah and davening are connected. That's fine, but really it needs a little elaboration because we are told Torah is everything, so how can they be one? (Same guy didn't have time for me at his Shabbos table either, so it wasn't a matter of the brochos starting. And besides he could have said, hold on one minute, and then talked to me after.) This is a Rosh Yeshiva at RIETS. You'd think he'd have some familiarity with questions like this. 

So here's what any of them might have said. Shlomo said, the sum of the matter is to fear Hashem and keep His commandments. (Koheles 12:13) Tefillah helps us acquire yiras Hashem and is a commandment. As for Torah being everything, obviously, it isn't. The Vilna Gaon said, the purpose of Torah is commandments. And the purpose of life is to fix one's middos. (Even Shelaimah,chapter one)

So how is it, that none of these people managed to quote either Koheles or Even Shelaimah? 

Here's another answer from the Iggeret HaKodesh, middle of Epistle 7 of the Tanya

At this point the Alter Rebbe resumes the thought begun earlier, where it was pointed out that Jacob referred to G‑d as “E‑l, G‑d of Israel,” for the soul of Jacob (otherwise known as Israel) was illumined with all the aspects of the Divine radiance, just as was the soul of Adam.

והנה שופריה דיעקב מעין שופריה דאדם הראשון

Now “The consummate beauty of Jacob resembles the consummate beauty of Adam,”1

שתיקן חטא אדם הראשון

for he rectified the sin of Adam.2

והיתה נשמתו גם כן כלולה מכל הנשמות שבישראל, מעולם עד עולם

His soul, too, comprised all the souls of Israel, “from world to world,” i.e., both those of the “Revealed World” as well as the “Concealed World.”

והיה מרכבה לתורה שלמעלה, שנקראת בשם אדם

Moreover, he was a vehicle for the Torah in its heavenly state, which is referred to as Adam,

This phrase reflects the wording of a verse which begins with the words,3 זאת התורה אדם...‏ — “This is the law: A man...” Interpreted on the level of derush, these words have been taken literally to mean: “This is the Torah — Adam.”

כמו שכתוב: ועל דמות הכסא דמות כמראה אדם וגו׳

as it is written,4 “And on the likeness of the throne there was a likeness as the appearance of Adam” [lit., “of a man”], and the latter term, as is explained in the Kabbalah,5 refers to the Torah.

וכמו שכתוב: וזאת לפנים בישראל גו׳

It is likewise written:6 “And this (זאת) was the custom in former time in Israel...,”

That, at least, is the plain meaning of the phrase quoted. On the interpretative level of derush, however, each of the three Hebrew words is here construed as follows: זאת (as taught in the Zohar) connotes “Torah”; לפנים — “within”; בישראל — “in Israel the Patriarch.” At this level, the quoted phrase thus means that “the Torah is [implanted] within, in Israel the Patriarch.”

אין זאת אלא תורה

and “זאת refers only to the Torah.”7

שהיתה כלולה ומלובשת בנשמת ישראל סבא, הכלולה מכל הנשמות

For the Torah was contained and vested within the soul of “Israel the Patriarch,” which compounded all the souls. (The quoted phrase refers both to Jacob in the mortal world and to his Supernal source, which is also known by this name.)

Now in addition, Jacob, or “Israel the Patriarch,” was a vessel capable of receiving the radiance of the Torah. Hence:

וזהו: ויקרא לו אל אלקי ישראל

This is the meaning [of the above-quoted phrase], “And he called Him E‑l, G‑d of Israel”:

אל: לשון המשכת הארה מאור אין סוף ברוך הוא מההעלם אל הגילוי

Since the Name E‑l denotes the Divine attribute of Chesed, which finds expression in G‑d’s desire to communicate His hidden light, [Jacob’s use of] the Name E‑l signifies [man’s] calling forth the radiation from the [infinite] Ein Sof-light, which is clothed in the Torah, from concealment to manifestation,

להאיר בבחינת גילוי בנשמתו

so that it should illumine manifestly in man’s soul.

וכמו שכתוב: אל הויה ויאר לנו

Thus, too, it is written:8E‑l is the L‑rd, and He has given us light,” indicating likewise that the Divine Name E‑l connotes illumination.

Thus, when we say that Jacob called G‑d “E‑l,” we imply that he called forth and drew down into his soul an all-encom-passing revelation of the [infinite] Ein Sof-light that comprises all the particular details of the Torah and its mitzvot.

ואחריו כל ישרי לב, העוסקים בתורה ובמצות, מאיר אור ה׳ אין סוף ברוך הוא בבחינת גילוי בנשמתם

and after [Jacob], the [infinite] Ein Sof-light shines openly into the souls of all the upright of heart who engage in the Torah and the mitzvot.

“The upright of heart”9 alludes to those individuals within whom the G‑dly illumination found in the intellect descends to the heart, where it inspires them with a love and an awe of G‑d. These spiritual emotions in turn add vitality to their study of Torah and their performance of the mitzvot.

The Divine radiation felt by these individuals is termed “our portion” (חלקנו, as in the quotation with which this epistle opened). This is the particular G‑dly illumination which permeates a Jew’s soul through his performance of each and every commandment, and which is a portion and part of the all-encompassing illumination comprising 613 “parts”.

וזמן גילוי זה ביתר שאת ויתר עז, ההארה במוחם ולבם

The most elevating and most powerful10 manifestation of this [Divine] radiance in their mind and heart

הוא בשעת התפלה, כמו שכתוב במקום אחר

occurs at the time of prayer, as is explained else-where.11

It is by means of the ladder of prayer that all of a man’s mitzvot ascend; this same ladder also serves as the conduit through which the resultant Divine radiance and revelation descend to this world.

FOOTNOTES

1.

Bava Metzia 84a, et al.

2.

Zohar III, 111b, et al.

3.

Bamidbar 19:14.

4.

Yechezkel 1:26.

5.

See Zohar I, 71b ff.

6.

Ruth 4:7.

7.

Zohar III, 81b.

8.

Tehillim 118:27.

9.

[In the Hebrew original, this phrase reads ישרי לב. On this the Rebbe comments:] “For the word ישראל comprises the words ישר אל.” [In this phrase, the first two letters of ישר are each vocalized with a kamatz. As explained in Likkutei Torah, Parshat Shlach, p. 40c, these two words imply that G‑d’s power finds direct expression in the souls of those described as ישרי לב.]

10.

Cf. Bereishit 49:3.

11.

Note of the Rebbe: “Cf. Epistle 24, below.”

So why don't they know about koheles, even shelaimah or the igeres of the Tanya? I think the answer is that they are practicing Manalism. They reduced the entire Torah to one mitzvah, learning, which happens to be the way all of these people obtain their parnassah and their cavod. And they reduce Torah to abstractions on a few pages of a few mesechtas. 

Ironically, the essence of that mitzvah is teaching others. Rabbi Yonasan Gefen has a lovely vort on that. He gives these away so I am going to post the entire thing here with contact info to order more from him.


PINCHAS - WHY HASHEM CHOSE YEHOSHUA   by Yehonasan Gefen

 

Towards the end of the Parsha, there is the account of Moshe Rabbeinu s request that Hashem appoint an able successor to lead the Jewish people into Eretz Yisrael. Hashem answered him that his faithful student, Yehoshua, is the appropriate choice.  Chazal elaborate on the dialogue that took place between Hashem and Moshe.  They tell us that Moshe asked that his own sons succeed him as leader, however Hashem refused this request, because your sons sat and were not osek beTorah , whereas, Yehoshua was the rightful successor because he would come early to, and leave late from, your beis medrash, and would arrange the benches and cover the tables[1].  There are two difficulties with this Medrash;  Firstly, if Moshes sons were not osek bTorah then how could Moshe Rabbeinu have had any expectation that they could lead the Jewish people[2]?  Secondly, it would seem that Hashem was comparing Moshes sons to Yehoshua in the same area of hanhago - that of being osek bTorah.  However, when Hashem praised Yehoshua he stressed the fact that he set up the Beis Medrash - this does not seem to have any relevance to being osek beTorah.  What exactly was the nature of  the comparison of Moshes sons to Yehoshua?

 

Rav Yosef Shalom Elyashiv Shlita explains that Moshes sons were talmidei chachamim and they were learned enough to lead the Jewish people - that is why Moshe believed that they were fitting candidates for succeeding him.  However, Hashem replied that this was not sufficient; when He said that they sat and were not osek bTorah’” He meant that they sat and learned for themselves and were not osek with others in Torah.  In contrast to their lack of being involved in helping other peoples Torah, Yehoshua would set up the Beis Medrash and thereby enable others to learn Torah - that is considered being osek bTorah[3].

 

There are a number of important lessons that can be derived from Rav Elyashivs explanation[4], however, there seems to be one specific difficulty with it - it would have seemed that being osek bTorah only implies learning Torah for oneself, where is the allusion to enabling others to learn Torah?  In order to answer this it is necessary to understand the basic definition to the mitzva of Talmud Torah.  The Rambam writes that there are two sources for the mitzva; You shall teach  them to your children and you shall teach them sharply to your children..  From these commands to teach children the Rambam derives that a person must learn Torah - the fundamental reason given for learning Torah is so that one can teach it to his children.  We see from here that the mitzva of Talmud Torah refers to teaching as much as to learning.  Moreover, the Rambam brings the Chazal that children also refers to students, and that a fundamental part of the mitzva is to teach people even if they are not ones own children[5].   Thus, it is quite understandable that Rav Elyashiv can translate, being osek bTorah as meaning causing others to learn Torah.

 

Another source for the concept that Torah intrinsically involves enabling others to learn Torah is found in the Gemara in Avoda Zara[6].  The Gemara says that world history is split into three periods of two thousand years:  The first is called the two thousand years of nothingness,  the second period is known as the two thousand years of Torah.  The commentaries explain that the years of nothingness are so called because of the lack of Torah in the world during that time, whereas the years of Torah mark the beginning of Torahs presence in the world.  The Gemara says that the years of Torah began with the time that Avraham began teaching Torah to the world, as represented by the souls that they made in Charan.  However, there is a difficulty with saying that the years of Torah began only at this point in time.   There are many maamarei Chazal which clearly state that there were great people who lived before Avraham and learned Torah,[7] and yet they lived in a time that is described as being absent of Torah, moreover Avraham Avinu himself learnt Torah long before he began teaching others - the era of Torah only began with the souls that they[8] made in Charan[9]. - why is this the case?  Rav Zev Leff Shlita explains that Avraham Avinu did something more than his illustrious predecessors - he taught Torah.  The era of Torah only begins when Torah is taught as well as learnt[10].  

 

The Maharsha makes a comment that develops this theme further by showing that, in addition to regular learning of Torah even the concept of Ameilus bTorah  is intrinsically bound up with teaching Torah.  The Gemara[11] derives the importance of ameilus bTorah from various passukim in Tanach that mention the word, lamal[12] (to toil).   The Maharsha writes that the letters of lamal (lamed, ayin, mem and lamed) make an acronym of lilmod al menas lelamed.[13]

 

We have seen many sources that show that learning and teaching Torah are in the same category.  It still needs to be explained why teaching Torah is so fundamental in Jewish thought.  The Ben Ish Chai ztl provides us with a deeper understanding of this inyan.  He brings the Gemara in Sanhedrin[14] that quotes the passuk in Shelach saying that person who serves other gods has degraded the word of Hashem[15].  The Gemara then describes other modes of behavior that deserve this devastating indictment[16].  Surprisingly, the Gemara adds that the passuk includes one who learns and does not teach.  The Ben Ish Chai asks why the Gemara speaks so harshly about one who learns but does not teach.  H ae explains that the Torah is eternal and its eternal nature is preserved by passing on its teachings to the next generation.  However, he writes that a person who learns but does not burden himself to teach his fellow damages the eternal nature of the Torah because the Torah that he learns cannot move on to the next generationtherefore it is understood why Chazal describe this man in such a severe manner - because he prevents the chain of the passing down of Torah from generation to generation and nullifies the Torahs eternal quality..[17] 

 

This also helps us understand why it was important that the leader of the Jewish people be one who causes others to learn Torah - his role was to preserve and continue the mesora and thereby preserve the eternal nature of the Torah.  We have seen how intrinsic teaching Torah is to the mitzva of learning Torah.  Moroever, whilst teaching Torah is a great chesed to other people, it is also clear that there is a very significant element of bein adam leutsmo in teaching Torah - it helps develop our appreciation of the eternal nature of Torah and to play a role in passing it on to the next generation.



[1]   Bamidbar Rabbah, 21:14.

[2]   This question is asked by Rav Yosef Shalom Elyashiv Shlita, Divrei Aggada, p.319.

[3]   Ibid.

[4]   See his continuation in Divrei Aggada, p.319-20 where he elaborates on the necessity to share one’s Torah with those who are distant from the true path.  We also learn from his explanation that the ability and willingness to share Torah with others is a key trait in determining an effective leader.

[5]   The Mishna in Avos, 1:1 tells us that we must “establish many students.”  The Tiferes Yisroel writes that it is not enough to merely teach one’s own children but one must teach other Jews as well.

[6]   Avoda Zara, 9a.

[7]   Chazal say that Adam HaRishon, Noach and Shem v’Ever learnt Torah.

[8]   ‘They’ refers to Avraham and Sarah.

[9]   Avraham was 52 years old when the era of Torah began - see Rashi, Avoda Zara, 9a.

[10]   One may ask that Avraham was not the first to teach Torah - Shem and Ever had yeshivas where they taught students.  See Rambam, Hilchos Avoda Zara, Ch.1 Halacha 3, with Raavad and Kesef Misha, Shut Chasam Sofer, hakdamo to Yoreh Deah, and Chomas Hadas of the Chofetz Chaim who all deal with this issue.

[11]   Sandedrin, 99b.

[12]   See Iyov, 5:7. Mishlei, Ch.16.

[13]   Maharsha, Sanhedrin, 99b.

[14]   Sanhedrin, 99a.

[15]   Shelach, 15:31.

[16]   Included in this list are one who is megaleh panim b’Torah and one who claims that the Torah is not from heaven.

[17]   Benyahu, Sanhedrin, 99a, quoted in ‘Peninei Ben Ish Chai, Shelach, p212.

To get weekly Torah insights from Rabbi Gefen write here: yehonasan@rabbigefen.com

So if they are doing such a poor job of teaching, are they even learning? I think what they are doing is a big pile of yeshus. It's all me-ism. Maybe not all, but it's drenched in that. 

And if they are learning such a small sliver of Torah, are they even learning? The Talmud (Kiddushin 30a) says, “To what extent is a person obligated to teach his son Torah? Rav Yehuda says that Shmuel says: (One should emulate the education of) for example, Zevulun ben Dan, whose father’s father taught him Bible, Mishna, Talmud, halakhot, and aggadot.”  The Vilna Gaon said “One must first fill himself with knowledge of Tanach, Mishna, Babylonian and Jerusalem Talmuds, Tosefta, Mechilta, Sifrem and all other baraisos. Then he should discuss and debate his learning with his colleagues. By studying in this sequence, one attains the splendor of Torah. One who changes this arrangement, however, and studies how to debate before knowing one Mishnah openly, will forfeit even the little Torah he heard in his youth.”  (Even Shelaimah 8:2) 

They aren't learning much, they aren't teaching, they aren't doing much chesed. What are they? It's nebach.

Monday, August 8, 2022

What is a Cult?

 https://cultinformation.org.uk/question_what-is-a-cult.html


What is a Cult?

The Cult Information Centre (CIC) defines a cult as a group having all of the following five characteristics:

  1. It uses psychological coercion to recruit, indoctrinate and retain its members
  2. It forms an elitist totalitarian society.
  3. Its founder leader is self-appointed, dogmatic, messianic, not accountable and has charisma.
  4. It believes the end justifies the means in order to solicit funds and recruit people.
  5. Its wealth does not benefit its members or society.

Categories of Cults

Religious CultsTherapy Cults

Communal living common.

Communal Living rare.

Members may leave or not join society's workforce.

Members usually stay in societys workforce.

Average age at the point of recruitment is in the 20s.

Average age at the point of recruitment is in the mid 30s

Registered as religious groups.

Registered as non profit making groups.

Appear to offer association with a group interested in making the world a better place via political, spiritual or other means.

Appear to offer association with a group giving courses in some kind of self improvement or self help technique or therapy.


What are the Characteristics of a Religious Cult?


Every cult can be defined as a group having all of the following five characteristics:

1. It uses psychological coercion to recruit, indoctrinate and retain its members

2. It forms an elitist totalitarian society.

3. Its founder leader is self-appointed, dogmatic, messianic, not accountable and has charisma.

4. It believes 'the end justifies the means' in order to solicit funds recruit people.

5. Its wealth does not benefit its members or society.



Mind Control techniques include:

1. Hypnosis
Inducing a state of high suggestibility by hypnosis, often thinly disguised as relaxation or meditation.

2. Peer Group Pressure
Suppressing doubt and resistance to new ideas by exploiting the need to belong.

3. Love Bombing
Creating a sense of family and belonging through hugging, kissing, touching and flattery.

4. Rejection of Old Values
Accelerating acceptance of new life style by constantly denouncing former values and beliefs.

5. Confusing Doctrine
Encouraging blind acceptance and rejection of logic through complex lectures on an incomprehensible doctrine.

6. Metacommunication
Implanting subliminal messages by stressing certain key words or phrases in long, confusing lectures.

7. Removal of Privacy
Achieving loss of ability to evaluate logically by preventing private contemplation.

8. Time Sense Deprivation
Destroying ability to evaluate information, personal reactions, and body functions in relation to passage of time by removing all clocks and watches.

9. Disinhibition
Encouraging child-like obedience by orchestrating child-like behaviour.

10. Uncompromising Rules
Inducing regression and disorientation by soliciting agreement to seemingly simple rules which regulate mealtimes, bathroom breaks and use of medications.

11. Verbal Abuse
Desensitizing through bombardment with foul and abusive language.

12. Sleep Deprivation and Fatigue
Creating disorientation and vulnerability by prolonging mental and physical activity and withholding adequate rest and sleep.

13. Dress Codes
Removing individuality by demanding conformity to the group dress code.

14. Chanting and Singing
Eliminating non-cult ideas through group repetition of mind-narrowing chants or phrases.

15. Confession
Encouraging the destruction of individual ego through confession of personal weaknesses and innermost feelings of doubt.

16. Financial Commitment
Achieving increased dependence on the group by 'burning bridges' to the past, through the donation of assets.

17. Finger Pointing
Creating a false sense of righteousness by pointing to the shortcomings of the outside world and other cults.

18. Flaunting Hierarchy
Promoting acceptance of cult authority by promising advancement, power and salvation.

19. Isolation
Inducing loss of reality by physical separation from family, friends, society and rational references.

20. Controlled Approval
Maintaining vulnerability and confusion by alternately rewarding and punishing similar actions.

21. Change of Diet
Creating disorientation and increased susceptibility to emotional arousal by depriving the nervous system of necessary nutrients through the use of special diets and/or fasting.

22. Games
Inducing dependence on the group by introducing games with obscure rules.

23. No Questions
Accomplishing automatic acceptance of beliefs by discouraging questions.

24. Guilt
Reinforcing the need for 'salvation' by exaggerating the sins of the former lifestyles.

25. Fear
Maintaining loyalty and obedience to the group by threatening soul, life or limb for the slightest 'negative' thought, word or deed.

26. Replacement of Relationships
Destroying pre-cult families by arranging cult marriages and 'families'.

Sunday, August 7, 2022

too good to be true

When you meet the friendliest people you have ever known, who introduce you to the most loving group of people you’ve ever encountered, and you find the leader to be the most inspired, caring and compassionate and understanding person you’ve ever met, and then you learn that the cause of the group is something you never dared hope could be accomplished, and all of this sounds too good to be true—it probably is too good to be true! Don’t give up your education, your hopes, and ambitions to follow a rainbow.

This is a quote from Jeannie Mills, an ex-member of the Peoples Temple—she was later found murdered

Wednesday, August 3, 2022

Rav Avigdor Miller on Too Much Mourning

Q:
You mentioned before the national tragedy of the 10 tribes going into Exile. Why didn’t Chazal establish a mourning commemoration for the galus of the Aseres Hashvotim, for the loss of these 10 tribes?
 

A:

That’s a very important question. Briefly the answer is this: Why isn’t there a separate commemoration of the Galus Bavel and also the galus that took place after Churban Bayis Sheini; besides for the burning of the Mikdash, eventually, over a period of time the Jews were driven out of all of Eretz Yisroel. So why don’t we have a special commemoration for those events too? Golus Aseres Hashvotim and two separate exiles from Eretz Yisroel?

The answer is, one is enough. It’s difficult enough for us to do justice in general to the Churban. It is a very heavy burden to have to mourn. Mourning is heavy on the Jewish soul and it is not the derech hatorah. The derech hatorah is עבדו את השם בשמחה – we must have a happiness; it is a toras chaim, we must live in joy. 

And therefore, they made one period of mourning and it covers everything. On Tisha B’Av when you sit on the ground, you are not only weeping for the churbanos of the two Beis Hamikdosh; you are weeping also for what took place in Europe. We mention Kehal Magentzah and Kehal Ashpirah, all the beautiful kehillos that once existed in Europe. And now we weep also על בית ישראל ועל עם השם שנפלו בחרב, for everything that went lost as the result of the very last holocaust in Europe.

So everything is included in one; because if we are going to make commemorations of all our disasters, then the whole Jewish calendar would be a time of mourning. There would be three weeks here and three weeks here and three weeks there. It’s enough what we have. It’s a pity enough to see people walking around sad during the three weeks; you can't go bathing, you can't have simchas, and you can't take a haircut. It’s enough; it’s enough. The Am Yisroel is not a people of mourning; they are people of happiness. A frum Jew is a cheerful Jew.

I once told you; I was walking through Williamsburg and it was remarkable. People were standing on the corners laughing and joking. Men with big beards, women with fatchailahs on their heads; everybody is happy! A happy nation! They aren’t rich people but they are good natured; they’re happy. שִׂמְחוּ צַדִּיקִים בַּה – Tzaddikim are happy in Hashem; it is a remarkable thing. 

It’s a remarkable thing! You’ll find a lot of good humor there. Gumetlichkeit! רַנְּנוּ צַדִּיקִים בַּהשם! Constantly you will find that. And therefore, Hakodosh Boruch Hu measured out a certain amount and that is enough to be yotzei for all of the things we went through. 

TAPE # 604 (July 1986)