I just had a guy over my house to give an estimate on cleaning up the mold. He said it was coming from a leak from the upstairs neighbor. He said there was no point in explaining the problem to them if they are Israeli. He's done it 100 times and every time the Israel says, "I'm not fixing it." I asked it it's toxic mold. He said you have to send a sample to a lab and there is no lab in all of Israel that checks for this. He sends it to Florida.
A blog for people who seek alternative approaches to kiruv and the baal teshuvah experience.
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
The odds are in your favor.
When a
contemporary yeshivish rabbi accuses you of being disrespectful you probably
have done something right, because you either
A) Asked
him a question that he cannot answer
B)
Showed him information that he had not seen before
C)
Correctly criticized a public facing action of his or any other yeshivish
rabbi. Even if you were not correct, expressing yourself as such is not
disrespectful.
D) Said
something mildly disrespectful, but not anything the typical rabbi doesn't do
or actually said something genuinely disrespectful.
The odds
are in your favor.
Sunday, January 28, 2024
Rav Schachter Q&A With Derech 2023 - YouTube
Rav Schachter Q&A With Derech 2023 - YouTube
14:00-14:34
One of the many considerations in choosing a
profession is how much time will you have to learn. Another important
consideration is will you have sipuk hanefesh in what you’re doing.
Let’s say, I’ll be miserable in my job, but I’ll have more time to learn. But
I’m going to be miserable because I’m not happy with that kind of work. Then
I’m gonna be in a miserable mood from my job then I’m not going to happy when I
learn. So the learning is not going to be too successful.”[1]
You'll note that he is speaking to Modern Orthodox kids at Ohr Somayach, not BTs because the large kiruv schools are now mostly populated with FFBs.
He also says here that the chiyuv in learning is just a minute in the morning and at night.
Thursday, January 25, 2024
anybody who is responsible
"If a Jew is unwillingly the cause of serious harm to
somebody else, how should he feel? Now the question is what is meant by ‘unwilling’?
You know, if a man kills somebody b’shogeig, he didn’t want to kill, the law is
that if the goel hadam catches him he can kill him; a relative can kill him.
Because a shogeig is also blameworthy. If it is an oness, something entirely
beyond his ability to prevent, you can’t blame him; but otherwise there
is a very great blood-guilt on a person who even indirectly has a share in
somebody’s death. There is a teshuvah in one of the teshuvah sefarim. A man
sent a boy, a youth, to drive a wagon at night through the forest. Now at night
it is not so easy to drive on the road, and the wagon overturned and the boy
perished. And therefore the chacham who answered the teshuvah said it’s a very
serious matter. He said you have to fast so many days every year, and you have
to give away so much money to establish a fund to do mitzvos instead of the the
mitzvos he lost. A very great and difficult teshuvah. Because anybody who is responsible for somebody’s life even
indirectly, unwillingly, has to have it on his conscience always. Very serious
matter."
Rabbi Avigdor Miller, TAPE # 405 (May 1982),
1:33:15-1:34:58.
this has to be relevant somehow
When people are freezing, the most important thing is to keep the brain and vital organs functioning. So, the blood vessels at the ends of the body naturally tighten up to ensure a good blood flow to those vital organs.
After being in this stressed state for a while, the muscles handling the blood vessels get tired and need a time to "rest."
Now, the blood vessels on the body's surface open wide, making the blood rush quickly to the limbs. Suddenly, those cold limbs feel all warm, creating the illusion of being "crazy hot."
When this signal reaches the brain, it misguides the instructions, making people believe it's scorching hot, leading them to take off all their clothes.
At that point, people who are on the verge of dying get up and struggle to undress, thinking that undressing is good.
Monday, January 22, 2024
Why isn’t the study of Tanach stressed in the yeshivos?
Why isn’t the study of Tanach stressed in the yeshivos?
Rabbi Avigdor Miller:
The answer is that today we’re less organized than we used to be. In the days of old everybody first studied Torah; the entire Torah. Then they studied Nevi’im and they studied Kesuvim. And we find in the Gemara that even the Sages used to come together—the greatest chachmei hatanaim—and study Tanach together. They called it pirka. It says when Rav was in the yeshivah of Rebbe, Rabi Yehudah Hanasi, so because he was the youngest one they gave him the function of reading aloud the possuk. He used to read the possuk aloud and all the chachamim gave their comments. Then someone came in late so Rav had to start from the beginning again. It’s a whole story there. But whatever it is we see that was the practice – they studied Tanach. In the yeshiva of these great men they studied Tanach. Certainly it’s a valuable study.
But over the course of time, we became disorganized. And now, especially in America, we don’t have enough time for everything. Now, if they would throw out from the mesivtas all limudei chol—which they’re not able to do because of the state requirements—if you could get rid of limudei chol, you would have time for Tanach. But as it is now, we don’t even have enough time for gemara. Gemara is a subject that requires a great deal of study, a great deal of time.
However, if you want to appreciate the quality of the devar Hashem and learn some of the secrets of the darkei Hashem, it’s imperative to know Tanach. And therefore it’s recommended for people who are looking for shleimus.
However, it does not make you a lamdan. A lamdan must put in whatever time he has in learning gemara and mefarshim; but if he wants a perfection of character and perfection of mind, it’s essential to learn Tanach.
Now, I would recommend even if you have no time, at least to read the Tanach in English. At least once. Get an idea of what happened. You won’t understand anything but at least know what happened in the days of Yehoshua, what happened in the days of the Shoftim. All of that glorious era should be a blank in your mind?! What happened in the days of Shaul and Dovid Hamelech and Shlomo Hamelech and all the kings of Malchus Beis Dovid? What happened to the Aseres Hashevatim?
And even Tehillim. And Iyov too. You never learned Iyov even once? Mishlei! Whole treasure troves of wisdom! And even though if you read it in translation you won’t understand many things, it’s better than not having the slightest contact with this great heritage of our past.
By all means, Tanach is very important, and every ambitious person should have in mind that someday he’ll study Tanach.
TAPE # 729 (March 1989)
Monday, January 15, 2024
Who is the rudest celebrity you have met, and who would be the nicest?
I have three (3) very positive encounters. All occurred in airports:
Chuck Norris - he was about 25 feet from me. I didn't want to intrude, so I didn't approach him, but I was looking his direction. We made eye contact and he came straight at me with a huge grin, grabbed my hand and said, “How you doing, man!”, with a warm, genuine smile.
Donny Osmond - I was assisting him with a minor issue. He approached me and threw his arm around my shoulder and greeted me like we were old friends. We spent about 5 minutes just chatting about his old TV show, his residency in Vegas with his sister, and what he was off to do on his trip. Absolutely a stellar human being.
Mike Lookingland - I was checking identifications and read the name, looked up and asked him, “THE Mike Lookingland?” He grinned and replied, “Yes.” Five minutes later ! Had to assist him with a bag. He and I spent about 5 minutes chatting about his trip and career. He was the kind of guy you would invite over to a barbecue and just have a great time.
Sunday, January 7, 2024
Schteiging
Now, the sefarim tell us that in the matter of coming close to Hashem in this world there are all kinds of degrees. Of course any degree is better than no degree, and we should try to accomplish whatever we can. Anyone who tries to gain even a little bit of perfection is successful. Of course, however, there are higher and higher degrees. And the sefarim explain, that you cannot ascend to the higher rungs of the ladder you unless first you put your feet on the lower rungs of the ladder. That's an important principle. We call it schteiging. Schteiging is a yiddish word which means climbing up the steps of the rung. That's schteiging. You cannot immediately put your feet on the top rung.
Rabbi Avigdor Miller, 592 Loving the Mitzvos, 26:15
Wednesday, January 3, 2024
applies to rabbis too
Commenting on the abuse of government power, Thomas Sowell said, "One of the real problems is that you have people making decisions for which they pay no price when they're wrong." Thomas Sowell
Consequences Matter: Thomas Sowell on “Social Justice Fallacies” | Uncommon Knowledge, 7:45, youtube.com